His name is incognito. They say he is a good kisser. So far, of all people he had shared kissing moments with (n = <10), no one failed to compliment him on his kissing style. He says he doesn’t really do anything unusual or put some extra effort during the kiss. So how does he kiss? He says, his trick of the trade is simple. He treats kissing as a way of expressing intense emotions in a softer, romantic way. When he kisses, he does it nice and slowly, sensuously, and gently, without the rush, savoring every moment of lip to lip, tongue to tongue, tongue to lip contact (he finds this latter one really sexy). When asked about tips on kissing (though he doesn’t count himself an expert), he has the following say. It’s a pretty simple formula to follow.
a. Don’t rush. It ruins the magic of the moment.
b. Don’t be a “vacuum cleaner.” Too much suction can be more distracting to your partner than pleasurable.
c. Use the tongue. Tongue works magic if used appropriately. Use it wisely!
d. Be sensitive. Learn to pick up subtle cues from your partner if you’re kissing him/her right or not.
e. Be sweet. To others, sweet nothings said during kissing add more spice and romance to the moment.
f. Be considerate. Others find mustache and beard stubbles as adding more pleasure to the skin to skin contact, whereas others find it painful. Do not be shy to ask your partner about it.
g. Give each other feedbacks. It is the best way of letting your partner know of your preferences. If both of you are aware of what is pleasurable and what is not, you can enjoy fully the pleasures of kissing.
So, should kisses be slow and sensuous or rough and wild? It really depends on you and your partner’s preferences. However, Incognito believes that the former provokes more pleasurable sensations than the latter, adding emotional component to the experience, ultimately bringing out the best kisser in you!
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